What do I really want?

The thing about dating after divorce is it's incredibly hard to put yourself out there after heartbreak. The idea of being hurt once again seems reason enough not to date at all, but the Loneliness seems to prevail and once again the dream of having someone to coexist with takes over. But I've been asking myself what it really is that I want? Am I really looking for Mr Right? Or perhaps just some strong arms around me on those cold, lonely nights?